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Many people are going through the motions of life, starting each new day the same as the one before it. Some will follow the same routine, clocking into a job that has become so practiced it is now a matter of routine. Then the end of the day arrives and people return home from their long time of work, tired, exhausted, numb, and/or any possible combination of these factors.

These rituals do not require a person to actively think about their state of happiness as they are just doing what is necessary to exist, or as some will say, to "just get by in life" or to "pay the bills". And those who feel internal turmoil about life often put on a face that portends normality to hide how they truly feel.

When reality causes a person to devote so much waking time to the demands of life, the mind can become numb or desensitized to internalized feelings of unhappiness; feelings which could be the result of daily living or feelings which have been long held but not acknowledged.

Consider Your Time of Arrival

A universal truth is this: When you come into a physical form you are living a life you have already planned in great detail. There was a very specific purpose you had established while you were still part of the greater life essence, the Source of all Life, the Collective Consciousness of Mankind.

When people state "God has a plan" they do so as they are conditioned to believe a divine being controls all life. But the greater essence of life is the energetic source of life, not a supreme being.

Now as a child, you knew whether or not you fit in and this would establish a pattern for your entire life. If you were a child who was labeled different, strange, an outcast, or an outsider, it could have a lasting impact on you, even if you are not consciously aware of its presence in your life. Even though you designed a life with challenges and roadblocks along the way, the natural feelings of frustration experienced, along with hurt, pain, and more can linger on for years.

As a person grows up and progresses into adulthood, this is a time when feelings from earlier in life are filed away into the subconscious. Now the focus of the conscious thoughts is mostly on building a career and establishing a life. The career development progresses, continues, and may or may not have interruptions along the way.

What It Means to Have a Heavy Heart

People become so focused on their career and personal life, in the earlier years of their adulthood, they tend to bury deep past feelings and get caught up in daily living. But as life goes on, changes happen. There can be triggering events, such as divorce, illness, job loss, job dissatisfaction, a relationship crisis, or similar life events. When something like this occurs, it reawakens the pain being carried inside, no matter what the degree this pain may be, soft, strong, loud, or extreme. This internal pain is a heavy heart.

A heavy heart is the culmination of pain, pain built up from years of life experiences. It could start as a child, from not fitting in to being the odd person out, to never seeming to know your purpose or place. It may involve being the victim of ridicule, torment, taunting, and more, all because you chose to have a life that was not one of sameness. But that hurt and pain carries on and can be added to with poor and failed relationships, along with poor and failed career or job choices that were never going to allow you to live up to your full potential.

The heart is your feeling center and it retains both your happiness and your pain. So when life today turns sour, the hurt and pain experienced suddenly feels amplified as your heart is already filled with the pain of days and years before. Now the heavy heart is burning and may seem broken or beyond repair.

Caring for a Heavy Heart

Can all the hurt go away at once?

What has been experienced and felt for a lifetime cannot be lifted in an instant. But what can be sought is to understand. This is not to understand what happened, but why the reaction is being carried now. For example, a journal is helpful as you can begin to name the current incidents, one at a time. Fill it in with the basic details and your reactions. Use it in any order. The purpose is to understand your reaction to life events, not why. You want to work to take these painful and hurtful moments off of your heart.

You are never going to eradicate the past memories, positive or negative. They are always going to be present. This is the same as the Collective Consciousness of Mankind. What you can do is to attune or change the energy of your focus. You want to address the current negative situation, as it is amplifying the negative energy being held within your consciousness and subconsciousness. When you can address and control your reactions to current situations, you can then change what is being amplified within.

What also helps to care for a heavy heart is love. When you can turn to someone you love and reach for their hand, ask for their guidance, seek their wisdom, or just allow them to listen, you are finding a way to lighten your heart. Through love, you can begin to amplify the positive energy which is held within you. Then you can begin to find a way to address the negative situations you are facing, and you will allow the Wisdom of the Universe to flow through you as insight, knowledge, and creative solutions.

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